My guest blogger Molly and her family have been through a stressful time after the discovery of a DNA relative they were unaware existed. Molly’s husband unknowingly fathered a child who is now an adult; a DNA test taken by a relative enabled the discovery.
Molly wanted to share with readers what she has learned from the experience being married to a newly found biodad, to provide for someone else the guidance that she thinks could have benefitted her husband who found himself in entirely uncharted territory.
This blog has been around nearly four years and during that time, dozens of other guest bloggers have talked about various aspects of the NPE/DNA surprise experience. This is the first time we’ve heard from a spouse. Most who have shared so far have been adult adoptees and NPEs. You can read some of those stories here: